“The thing I’ve learned over the years about advice is that no one can accurately predict the future, but we all think we can. So advice at its best is one person’s limited perspective of the infinite possibilities before you. People’s advice is based on their fears, their experiences, their prejudices, and at the end of the day, their advice is just that: it’s theirs, not yours. When people give you advice, they’re basing it on what they would do, what they can perceive, on what they think you can do. But the bottom line is, while yes, it is true that we are all subject to a series of universal laws, patterns, tides, and currents—all of which are somewhat predictable—you are the first time you’ve ever happened. YOU and NOW are a unique occurrence, of which you are the most reliable measure of all the possibilities.”
-Will Smith
When your actions no longer align with your goals, there will be push back from those in your circle who don’t understand what it is that you’re trying to accomplish. It’s your job to realign your actions to meet your new goals, and refresh your inner circle with people who support rather than detract… but regardless of how much people support you, they still might not understand you. When this is the case, you must remain focused on your goals. And remember: it’s okay to not ask for advice.
The Break Room 